Relisancy is a trait that comes more naturally to some than others, but it is a trait that can be practiced and brought to fruition in anyone.
I believe all of us have a spark of resiliency that is innate and God given (2 Timothy 1:7)… we just have to fan the flame. It’s not easy. It’s a lifelong practice. But if you strive for resilience, you will never be broken, only better for your trials.